From a very small age girls are taught to look clean, presentable and beautiful. There are so many advertisements for products encouraging girls to look more
Fair or have longer lashes, etc, So as to “fit in” and called beautiful.
But what they don’t realise is that there is more to just physical or outer beauty. What is on the inside matters the most.
These are the traits that are more important for a girl looking for happiness and having lasting effects.
1. SELF LOVE
The first step is to learn to love yourself. Feel good about yourself. Whatever you wear, wherever you are, you should embrace your beauty in your own ways. You don’t have to use fairness creams to hide your dark skin complexion, you don’t have to wear certain kinds of clothes to look more appropriate or hide your body. Do what you love and what makes you feel good about yourself. Society does not tell you whether you look beautiful, you do.
2. Be Confident
When you are confident, you don’t need someone to call you “beautiful” to feel good. You know you’re special and that shines through your posture, words and actions. When you are confident, other people will want what you have.
3. Be Passionate
The passion you exude when you talk about something you love, makes you look so attractive that it gets harder for people not to listen. So Find what you love and work for it. Passionate people usually come off as a lot of self-assurance and certainty in the things they say. Always remember you can have anything you want, all you need is to love that thing with all your heart.
4. Work Out
Not because you want to loose weight. Not because you want to fit in. Because you want to stay healthy. Work Out because your body needs it. Be it running, walking, swimming, dancing and so on.You should workout at least 30 mins a day to live a more happier and healthier life.
5. Be Positive
This is a very important one. Be positive and stay away from toxic people. You don’t need anyone to victimize you. Don’t be sad Because you gained another pound. Have a happy outlook on life. Those who truly love you will always support you. Celebrate little things in life and don’t let anyone bring you down!
( Don’t worry I will soon upload a post on how to be positive hehe)
So girls, go wear your crown again and always know that you are amazing the way you are. No one can ever tell you what’s wrong. If you are happy with yourself then there’s nothing in the world that can stop you from doing what you love!